Post By: Angela Parlin
Maturity is a hot topic around our house these days.
These kids are determined to grow bigger, taller, and smarter each week, and along with that, they’re determined to grow in freedom. Sometimes I wish I knew how to slow it all down.
We often explain to our oldest two, that in this area or that, we need to see a little more maturity before we can allow greater freedom.
Strangely, there are days when it appears maturity is decreasing rather than increasing. Anybody else?
It probably has something to do with approaching the teen years. But let’s just say we’ve lived a number of wide-eyed, dumbfounded, What did he just do? moments around here. Since we’re only beginning this new stage, I have a feeling we need to be ready for more of that to come.
{Parents of teens & grown children are shaking their heads yes.} 🙂
But all this talk of maturity doesn’t only apply to our growing children.
The writer of Hebrews spoke to a group of seasoned believers who seemed to have slipped backward in their faith, maybe all the way back to where they began. They were seasoned, yet spiritually lazy.
He was teaching them about the significance of Jesus as their High Priest, when he said–
“It is hard to make it clear to you because you no longer try to understand.” (5:11)
One–I think I may have a lot of use for that line.
But two? Ouch.
Could this reprimand be meant in any way, for you and me?
I think of how I’ve run from complex spiritual topics at times. When it overwhelms me or I can’t figure it out, I move on to something else. But maybe what I need is to work out my faith in those areas.
Maybe I don’t need to try to figure it all out, but to persist in understanding.
I think of the spiritual disciplines I have declared “too hard” for me. The ones I’ve rationalized with, I’m just not there yet.
Or the times I committed to read through the Bible in a year. But when I got “stuck” at Leviticus, I skipped a number of books or abandoned my plan altogether.
Yes, sometimes, even as grown-ups, we run away when things are hard.
So what does it look like to move forward to maturity?
Persevere.
Progress.
Keep at it.
Persist.
Move forward.
Take one little step after another.
It looks like growing our relationship with the Lord through solitude, the Word, and obedience.
Years ago, I finally persisted through Leviticus all the way to Revelation, without looking back. I kept moving forward through the Word, developing a greater thirst and a more complete understanding. All that forward movement caused more of the same.
You know what I think held me back before? I didn’t desire to grow. I wanted to have read through the Bible, but I didn’t want to do the hard work of thoughtfully considering ALL the words, even those in Leviticus and Numbers and the Chronicles.
But this is our calling–the calling He’s given all of us.
I’m not talking about reading through the Bible, though that could be part of it.
God calls us each to move forward, to move toward Him, to grow up in Christ.
Are you willing to follow His call, even when it’s hard work? Do you want what’s on the other side, to know Him more?
What step will you take today, to move forward, toward spiritual maturity?
Therefore let us move beyond the elementary teachings about Christ and be taken forward to maturity. Hebrews 6:1a
Angela Parlin is Dan’s wife and Mom to 3 rowdy boys and 1 sweet girl. In addition to spending time with friends and family, she loves to read and write, spend days at the beach, watch romantic comedies, and organize closets. But most of all, she loves Jesus and writes to call attention to the beauty of life in Christ, even when that life collaborates with chaos. Join her each week at www.angelaparlin.com, So Much Beauty in All This Chaos.
